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Thursday, June 24, 2010

Days of Our Lives

Certain television shows just remind me of my childhood, and Days of Our Lives is one of them. A soap, you're thinking? A soap opera reminds her of childhood? Yes, it does, and it all has to do with my granny.

She never missed an episode of it. Since we stayed with her during the day during the summer months and every day after school during the school year, we watched it with her. Not that we minded, we all gathered around the television each afternoon to witness the going-ons of the people of Salem.

Here are some of my specific memories of Days of Our Lives:

1. Megan getting electrocuted in the hot tub at the gym by a blow dryer.
2. Bob kidnapping Hope when she was going to marry another man and taking her to that romantic Southern plantation.
3. Bo and Hope's wedding and the gawd-awful headpiece veil she wore
4. Kimberly and Shane falling in love. I still have a crush on Shane to this day
5. Jennifer and Jack making love for the first time in the cave. I loved them as a couple.
6. The Isabella-John Black storyline was the saddest, most romantic one ever. Just before she died, John bought a star for her and named after her. He carried her out to see it, and she died in his arms. My cousin and I watched this on a Saturday night (recorded on the old VHS VCR) and cried like babies.

I don't think I've watched the show in at least 10 years, maybe even more, since Swamp Girl or Jungle Woman or whatever she was called was on there. My brother still watches it; I think because it reminds him of Granny. He called me yesterday and told me Alice Horton was about to die on the show. Frances Reid, the lady that played her, died months ago.

My granny always reminded me of a combination of Alice Horton and Dorothy from Golden Girls. My family reminded me of the Hortons. A bit dysfunctional in a lot of ways, we always came together when we needed each other, just like the Hortons. We might fuss and fight, but we always make up, just like the Horton family on the show.

In spite of the fact I knew I was going to cry, I decided to watch yesterday. It brought back so many memories of losing my granny almost three years ago. Mike Horton even missed his granny's death, just as my Uncle Bobby wasn't there when Granny died. Today, at the beginning of the episode, Hope asked, "What am I going to do without you, Gran?," and I said the exact same thing when my granny died.

I doubt I'll start tuning in again. I had to ask my brother a ton of questions to find out what's going on. But, Days of Our Lives was always a wonderful part of my childhood, the intrigue, the feeling I was doing something naughty by tuning in and mostly the time spent with my granny. So long, Alice Horton. Thanks for the memories.


JenJen said...

How about when Marlana (sp?) was possessed by the devil :) My mom still watches the show daily (on soapnet)...

I cried when Another World went off the air! I don't watch soap operas anymore though...

Your granny sounded like a really neat lady ((hugs))

clairity said...

I loved Days of Our Lives too :)

Thanks for the Friday Follow. Following you back.

Christy said...

Mine was All My Children. I think my mom may still watch it.

Anonymous said...


I couldn't watch the death of Alice episode though..I deleted it. I knew it would make me sad!

Vanessa said...

Thanks for visiting me! I just came over to say hello, but I want to tell you how much this post touched me. I too spent the summers with my Gram as a child and her (our) soap opera of choice was Guiding Light...we were both so disappointed when it went off the air, but every time I think of it, I think of her and our special time together.

Great memories we share :)

Erin Wallace said...

It reminds me of being a teenager - it was on before Santa Barbara so we watched both. That veil was horrible!

xo Erin

Montessori For Learning said...

I was at the gym the other day and Days was too reminded me of my teenage years. Jack and Jennifer were also my favorite. I loved all the little adventures they would get into. Thanks for following my blog!